"Removing blame means never assigning responsibility to anyone for what you're experiencing. It means that you are willing to say, 'I may not understand why I feel this way, why I have this illness, why I've been victimized, or why I had this accident, but I'm willing to own it. I live with, and I am responsible for, having it in my life.' Why do this? If you take responsibility for having it, then at least you have a chance to also take responsibility for removing it or learning from it." ~ Dr. Wayne Dyer